trauma
At its core, trauma can be thought of as the psychological wounds that persist, even when the physical ones are long gone.
Self-care is highly important.. Content Warning.
I am so finished with that jerk's verbal abuse and never desired any of the verbal abuse, verbal aggression, and menacing threats from a man aggravatedly berating me only because I tried to be his friend. When he was in the wrong for the hateful choice of words he chose instead of changing for the best he grew hateful and nasty. I wasn't hateful and nasty but I stood up for myself verbally and in writing and the haterade spilled out of him, he had the nerve to cry his heart out like his intentions were to be nothing but hateful and play the victim. I am full-fledged on my self-care routine and I won't hop off of my self-care routine ever. Fuck allowing any man to make me feel like I am in the dead wrong when I am in the right forgive me my words may be spilled out wrong but I spilled the tea didn't I? I'm good, I refuse to be hurt over, and over, and over again, and again. I feel so hurt and I don't have anyone but me to self-soothe. Oh well, you bet I am doing it, and doing it well. I sat there and took it and took it and took it and said not one word I smiled a couple of times to say, " I am here for you, but you don't listen or take heed." "I am so done with this BS." And clearly, I was done I refused to go back and forth and argue. I chose wisdom since I am not going to let this man argue and physically abuse me too. I will not allow any form of abuse from anyone. The 0 tolerance policy for haterade is in full effect. Respect the rules of my house or stay 1,000 feet or more away from my physical person including where I live and where I come home. Abuse is not permitted herein my sanctuary of love and understanding. I can be very therapeutic and that is possibly why he continued to return and enjoy my home with me. I care about this man whose name I desire strongly to leave unspoken since I refuse to dignify writing his name in this beautiful specimen. He is beautiful however he needs unconditional love and genuine help. He seems damaged and emotionally disturbed I feel hurt and sad for him, I will choose to love this dude from a very long distance as best as I can for my safety. Unfortunately, his judge decided against me as if I did not count in this world for Jack. I am sick and tired of every time I need the authorities and the structure of the law to provide the safety provide protection that they can give so easily they fail me every single time to protect and serve my needs and the needs of my community. It is as if the law structure thinks and is automatically set up to fail those who genuinely have a need for protection and a safe community from aggravated verbally aggressive Halitosis feet stinky Dennis the menace. How come I must feel like coaxing and begging him to let me wash his garments? It really hurts. How do I know he will not break into my buddy's house where I reside and shoot me in cold blood or break my bones while I am trying to sleep? Or bitch slap me out of my sleep and I give instant retaliation physically and do something that may harm him unintentionally. I dislike harm to me or anyone no matter who they are. I guess I will write myself to sleep or not.
By Angelina F. Thomas3 years ago in Psyche
Common Mental Illnesses. Content Warning.
Mental illness is characterized as a condition that has a lasting negative impact on a person's thinking, mood, or feelings. Depression and anxiety are classified as mental illnesses, and they are actually among the most prevalent types of mental disorders.
By Marlene Silvio3 years ago in Psyche
Mental Health Awareness. Content Warning.
Mental health awareness is important for several reasons. Firstly, it helps to break down the stigma associated with mental illnesses. By promoting awareness, we can encourage open and honest conversations about mental health, fostering a supportive environment where individuals feel comfortable seeking help and support.
By Marlene Silvio3 years ago in Psyche
Unlocking the Enigmatic Mind: A Journey Through the Mysteries of Human Psychology. Content Warning.
The human mind, a labyrinth of enigmas, remains one of the most compelling frontiers of exploration for psychologists and thinkers alike. In our quest to understand the intricate workings of the psyche, let's embark on a captivating journey, delving deeper into the mysteries of the human mind.
By Abrar Khan3 years ago in Psyche
Sexual Abuse And Your Mental Health. Content Warning.
***CONTENT WARNING*** This contains graphic information about child sexual abuse We all have our traumas growing up, and our stories about our dysfunctional families. But I'm using writing as a tool for me to work through shit, so I am going to share some defining points of my childhood that really set up the person I became and why I have struggled so badly to manage my life in a healthy manner. And also for those who have a shared or similar experiences to know you aren't alone in this battle of self.
By Tressa Rose3 years ago in Psyche
Retreating Into the Country Up North
Yes, there will be yoga, by a master yoga teacher or two. Well, one of them will be providing guided meditation and meditation walks. The retreat this year is to be held at a resort in northern Minnesota. Not too far from where I grew up.
By Denise E Lindquist3 years ago in Psyche
You're Heartbroken...How To Remind Yourself That You're Worthy
A break-up can affect everyone involved in it, but it can be particularly difficult for the person who did not desire it. This is because he/she may be feeling a range of negative emotions, such as sadness, anger, rejection, and betrayal. They may also be struggling to adjust to the loss of their relationship and the changes it brings to their life.
By Elaine Sihera3 years ago in Psyche
"THAT ONE NIGHT"
Some kind of unusual thoughts start occuring when you think continuously and these thoughts sometimes pulls you towards the mountain full of unsolved paths that no one knows which one is the credible way to follow. you'll be in dilemma than again you will start thinking of your own thinking, again and again even after hundreds and thousands of thoughts arose inside you there will be no one to show you path neither was anyone before. Standing alone at the top elevation of thoughts and still suffocating due to the air full of unsolved mysteries inside you.
By Sudip Kadel3 years ago in Psyche
Higehiro. Content Warning.
Trigger and Spoiler Warning: If you happen to have trouble with themes of sexual assault, parental abuse, coercion, trauma management, and suicide, you may want to skip this post, as well as the anime series for Higehiro. Yes, that's a lot. We get heavy today.
By Loki Taviel3 years ago in Psyche
It Isn't a Child's Job to Heal Their Parent's Trauma
After years of writing and talking about my trauma on the internet, I don’t consider myself easily surprised. That all changed, however, when I logged on a few days ago to see a comment section that truly shocked me.
By E.B. Johnson 3 years ago in Psyche
When Trauma Advocates Say This They Aren't Being As Helpful As They Think They Are
Without a doubt, there are few people who annoy me more than trauma validators. What is a “trauma validator”? Well, in the simplest terms, they are well-meaning people who say really gross things that validate the horrible experiences that happen around them. It’s not really their fault. They’re trying to reframe painful experiences and shine a “new light” on them, but their good intentions go too far.
By E.B. Johnson 3 years ago in Psyche
