What is emotion? What are emotions?
The feeling of a person is the feeling of "the feeling of others". And feelings: between people, the gap and differences are absolute, the essence of communication is compromise, to find a mutually acceptable solution. How complex the human brain is, how different people think. People treat the differences of sincerity, for communication efforts, constitute the most meaningful feelings between people, people often talk about the family, friendship, love, all belong to this case. The more you value a person, the more you respect his uniqueness, the more you want to understand his ideas and help him achieve his wishes. Relationships are not about reciprocity, but feedback. Active communicators are rewarded for noticing and acknowledging your efforts. If the signals of active communication are not responded to effectively for a long time, the relationship will gradually end. People who communicate, or as people like to say, give more, don't have to regret their giving. In any set of real relationships, the active partner benefits the most. Because that's what she wanted, and she got it. The other person is just wanted and got. In this whole process, the emotional experience of the active party is always more profound and unforgettable. Even when the relationship ended, it was because the passive side thought I had other options. During the duration of the relationship, his emotional experience and self-growth are less profound and meaningful than their partner's. Even if he seems more free and "powerful". And take the initiative to pay one side, but always understand what they like, what is. She can complain, but not regret.