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Family life from the feminist perspective; can women have it all? Can anyone?
The Tattoo Artist
How One Woman Transforms Trauma Into Art on Human Skin THE CANVAS NOBODY CHOOSES 💪 Elara Chen does not work in an ordinary tattoo shop and does not create ordinary tattoos because her clients come to her not with designs they found on Pinterest but with scars they want transformed, surgical scars and self-harm scars and burn scars and mastectomy scars and the countless other marks that trauma leaves on human skin that serve as permanent visible reminders of the worst moments of their owners' lives, and Elara's gift is the ability to see in these damaged landscapes of skin the foundation for artwork that does not hide the scar but incorporates it, making the wound part of the beauty rather than something beauty must conceal 🌸
By The Curious Writerabout 7 hours ago in Viva
"It's the thought that counts.". Top Story - March 2026.
It's Mothers' Day (Mother's Day? Mothering Sunday?) tomorrow here in Britain. I am going out for lunch and may have to dress up. I am looking forward to it. There is an expectation of gifts too. Who doesn't like a gift?
By Rachel Deeming20 days ago in Viva
Mikayla Matthews: Growing Up, Motherhood, and Public Life
Growing up is rarely simple. People make mistakes, learn difficult lessons, and slowly discover who they are. Most of these moments happen privately, shared only with close friends and family. For some individuals, however, life unfolds in front of a public audience. That reality can make ordinary experiences feel far more intense. Mikayla Matthews is one of those people whose personal journey became widely visible through television and social media. Viewers first noticed her as part of a group of young adults navigating relationships, friendship, and early adulthood. Over time, her story grew beyond entertainment. It became a portrait of motherhood, personal struggle, loyalty, and learning to grow while thousands of people watch every step.
By Muqadas khan22 days ago in Viva
30 Isn't A "Deadline" Its A Starting Point
I turn 30 this year, and for some reason, everyone around me, whether they are approaching it or have already passed it, seems more panicked by it than I am. 30 seems to be a “deadline” in everyone’s head. The worry is always the same: Is it too late to have children? Should I be further in my career? Should I be a homeowner by now?
By Mollie Blackman 26 days ago in Viva
Why I’m Telling My Friends to Skip the Solitaire for a Diamond Band
Let’s have an honest conversation about engagement rings. For decades, we’ve been fed the same narrative: a proposal requires a giant, protruding diamond that costs three months' salary and stands so high off the finger it could practically have its own postcode. But as we move further into 2026, many of us are asking: Is that really what we want?
By Mohd Kaishabout a month ago in Viva
Beyond the Sparkle: 5 Reasons Why a 1ct Engagement Ring is the Perfect 'Forever' Choice
The journey to finding the perfect engagement ring is often filled with a whirlwind of questions. Should you go for a massive stone that makes a statement, or something subtle? Should you prioritize the metal or the diamond? In the middle of all these trends—from the "minimalist" movement to the "bigger is better" celebrity culture—the 1ct engagement ring has remained the undisputed champion.
By Mohd Kaish3 months ago in Viva
Never Laugh at Woman's Pain
This story involves a life lesson learning experience for all women that they need to know and understand why they should never laugh at a woman’s pain because when she deals with it you will endure what she has. This story involves reality star and business Miss Nikki, former NBA basketball player/ wannabe rapper Gelo Ball, and Wild n Out gal Rashidia Nicole. Before I start to address this whole story and this is not a diss towards anyone, honestly, I was never involve in their lives and it is not my business to tell so. This is just a epitome of never laughing at woman’s pain.
By Gladys W. Muturi4 months ago in Viva
"The Woman or the Girl You Knew the night before...."
"Girl... ..... you'll be a woman, soon." Neil Diamond sang those lyrics circa 1967, the same year Aretha Franklin was belting out "Natural Woman". Bob Segar recorded the song "Turn the Page" in 1971 with the lyrics "You can think about the woman, or the girl you knew the night before." And "She's Always a Woman" is a song by Billy Joel from his "Stranger" album of 1977, while the BeeGee's sang "More than a Woman"also in the 70s. People also loved John Lennon's song "Woman" from the album "Double Fantasy" released in 1980. After that, the 80s and 90s did not produce any big titles with the word "Woman" as the main theme. So? Why all this history of "Woman" themed songs? What's my point? What does it mean to be a woman? VIVA community wants to know. I think Neil, Bob, Billy, The Gibbs, and John, have all tried to answer the question for women, but how many women have written a song about Women? We might bark up Melissa Etheridge's tree or the Indigo Girls, but as far as I've heard of their songs, I've not found one focused completely on the word or theme "Women" --- which has me believing that neither straight or lesbian women really know what to say about the word "woman" or "women" yet I have just thought of one artist who did come up with something in the 90s: Shania Twain. "Man, I feel like a Woman." Oh, wait. Another artist just came to mind - Whitney Houston (in the 80s) did do a remake of "I'm Every Woman" which was a Pop Hit for her.
By Shanon Angermeyer Norman5 months ago in Viva








