breakups
When it comes to breakups, pain is inevitable, but Humans thinks that suffering is optional.
Second guessing will bite you in the ass
you can never really know what someone is thinking about you or anyone else can you? This can be a good thing or it can turn into a bad thing. some people have really strong intuition about other people. I just so happen to be one of those people. Usually I can tell what someone is actually thinking or feeling about me. I’ve been told that I need to listen to what first comes to my mind about someone or something. And and that I need to stop second guessing my first thought that comes into my head. I’ve always had an easy time figuring out what someone is about. Except for when it comes to relationships. Maybe it’s because I don’t want to see that person isn’t as great as I want them to be. But, I need to stop doing this. Usually, I can always pick up on when something’s not right withsomeone. People have always found it easy to talk to me about really anything. I think that could be because I can actually really feel for someone and their situation. With most people it’s easy for me to pick up on how they're actually feeling even if they're not saying it. I can usually tell what someone’s upset about before they actually tell me what it is that they’re upset about. Maybe that’s because I wear my heart on my sleeve, maybe it’s because I’ve been through quite a lot myself, maybe it’s because I’m down to earth and can just really feel for someone situation and for them, or maybe it really is because I do have super freaky good intuition. But, whatever the reason, it’s always seemed to be a good thing and helped me. I just need to learn to trust my first thought about someone, something, or The situation. I need to stop second guessing my first thought about these things. Because every time I don’t trust it that’s when I realized that I should have that’s when I realized I need to just listen to myself. Most of the time I don’t listen to myself that initial Oh yeah don’t do that don’t do this that it’s not a good person. And that’s when it bites me in the ass. But, every time I have listened to that little intuition voice in my head, it's turned out to be true and a good thing that I did listen to myself. Now when I don’t, it does turn out to be a bad decision, for example my ex of four years. My ex of four years, used me and abused me and somehow got me to stay with him for four years. He made me think I’m not good enough, no one could ever want to be around me, because I’m just so damn annoying, he made me feel like I’m not good enough, like I’m ugly on the inside and the outside. And none of those things are true, that's not just me saying that that's other people saying it as well without me asking them. But, even with people telling me that I’m not those things and whatever else, I still feel like I am. I never would of had to go through any of that, or what I’m going through now, if I would have just trusted my intuition my gut feeling and not wrote it off is just I don’t know… Me being insecure like always… So now, since I couldn’t trust that initial gut feeling about him I’m left with extreme insecurity about the way I look, about being annoying to other people, that I’m not smart enough, that I’m not good enoug, and that I never will be. I hope, that this goes away someday soon, even though I’m left with all this insecurity about myself. The one good thing to come from all of that, is that I learned to trust that initial thought about someone or something that intuition about the situation the person, because it turns out that it's always right. So now I know that it's not just me being paranoid or silly or whatever, now I know that I need to trust it that I can. That way I never go through something like that ever again.
By Janessa Starr5 years ago in Humans
Waking Up to a World on Fire
The following story is a personal journey of pulling back the curtains on my life that happened as a result of stay at home orders, extra time and the explosion of civil unrest. I’m sharing this as a voice to others that I know have experienced similar if not the exact same things in the last few months. Know you are not alone.
By Lisa "Eevie" Ford5 years ago in Humans
Have Mercy on My Heart
Josh walked to his door, pulling a shirt on over his pajama pants. He had a sick feeling that he knew who this was and he wasn’t looking forward to opening the door at this time of night and having to face this again. It wasn’t the first time, and he wished beyond anything that it would be the last. All it ever did was reopen the wounds that he was trying so desperately to heal. He opened the door and there she stood, and his heart stopped. He still loved her, with every ounce of who he was, he loved this girl.
By Kaaryn Stowell5 years ago in Humans
Friendly Heartbreak
Everybody knows about heartbreak. Whether it's a breakup or losing a loved one, or whether its the letter of rejection you received after longing for this job, this school, or this home for so long. I find that one of the most underrated "heartbreak situation" is when you lose a friend.
By Chelsea Doe5 years ago in Humans
Why Did He Leave, Why Did He Come Back
How many times has your man left you and came back? Unfortunately, I can tell you how many mine has and his reasons why but it wasn't all his fault. We have three kids together and yes ALL of them are his. I somehow managed to give birth to two girls and one boy. The woman's body is mysterious and kind of scary if you ask me. Anyways, back to the subject at hand.
By Briahna Cunningham5 years ago in Humans
My life is ruined in the way I never thought it could..
Yeah - ok ok, Please, sit quietly. I’m about to tell you the truth so please don’t interrupt me thank you. Lately all I feel is pain, feels like my heart doesn’t beat the same. I wanna give up and I just, feel stuck in a life that I know I cannot change. Everyday all I do is sit and be depressed, trying to get up and get help but I’m still a big mess. When I look back my past is showing me bad memories and it’s hurts so much to even think of them. I met this girl yeah we both fell in love, we had so much fun making memories daily , going to a movies, going on the hikes, holding hands while looking at each other eyes and talking about love. This girl opened my eyes she gave me everything she possibly could. She started dating me when I was alone when I was broke and homeless, I never thought this girl would ever be mine ? I never thought she would except me for who I am or what I even look like? I was so afraid that she would reject me and disappear outta my life. But that’s wasn’t the case, let me tell you what exactly happened ...
By Anatoly Boardman5 years ago in Humans
Fall out of love
Being in love is a great and beautiful feeling but when you fall out of love with that person you was so in love with is no more. You tell them you love them still but no longer in love with them they can’t except it. They force their feelings unto you even though you don’t feel the same way. But since you shared many years together they say that should matter, I don’t think it should because if you no longer happy why stick around. Why do they want to stick around if they are not getting the love they used to. They fear of knowing that the person could do and be better without them. They want to stay there for their on selfish reasons.
By Keila Martin5 years ago in Humans
