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Dating, married, single, divorced, and more. Advice on the relationships you have in life. Dear, Humans..

Cruel Paradise
Looking at the burning candle made me realise that everything fades away as it burns and becomes light for others. Though your names might stay behind. But at what cost? The cost of burning yourself? And still, if someone accidentally gets burned, all your struggles to light someone’s life would be in vain in their sight.
By Mubarik Ahmad about a month ago in Humans
Discover Which of the Five Love Languages You Speak
“Something in our nature cries out to be loved by another. Isolation is devastating to the human psyche. That is why solitary confinement is considered the cruellest of punishments,” — Gary Chapman
By Chantal Christieabout a month ago in Humans
How to Be Sexy
Most people think being sexy is about having the right body, the right clothes, or the right lines to say. It isn’t. Sexiness is a signal. It tells other people, “I am comfortable being seen.” Not perfect. Not flawless. Just unafraid of existing in your own skin.
By Opinionabout a month ago in Humans
How to Be Confident
Confidence doesn’t arrive like a lightning strike. It builds quietly, often in places no one else sees. It starts in small moments, when you speak even though your voice shakes, when you try something knowing you might fail, when you stop apologizing for taking up space.
By Opinionabout a month ago in Humans
Is Our Problem That The System Is Broken?
No matter where you go in the world... You will find someone who will tell you... And everyone else... About how the system is broken.
By Dr. Cody Dakota Wooten, DFM, DHM, DAS (hc)about a month ago in Humans
How to Look Approachable
There’s a strange paradox about modern dating: most women don’t struggle because they’re invisible. They struggle because they’re visible in the wrong way.
By Opinionabout a month ago in Humans
Every Anniversary.... Top Story - February 2026.
Every Anniversary, I take the day off. A day to rest, and remember. A day to be kind and gentle to myself, and remind my heart and mind that it is ok to not be ok.
By Natasja Roseabout a month ago in Humans
Think for Me. Top Story - February 2026.
"How do you calculate the circumference of a circle? Submit your answer when ready." [Pause] "Excellent! Every student was able to call up the answer electronically very quickly. If I, as a robot had feelings, I would express pride. You may break for lunch. Return to this cyber room in 45 minutes."
By Julie Lacksonenabout a month ago in Humans
Allison Holker: Love, Loss, and Life After Silence
Grief does not arrive quietly. It changes the air in a room. It reshapes the way a person walks, speaks, and even breathes. When news about Allison Holker spread across headlines, many people did not just see a dancer or television personality. They saw a woman facing something deeply human. Loss. Confusion. Strength she never asked to prove.
By Muqadas khanabout a month ago in Humans
Why We Always Hate Where We Are
Have you ever noticed that no matter where you are in life, something feels off? You could have a stable job, a supportive friend group, or a comfortable routine — and yet, it never feels enough. You find yourself wishing you were somewhere else, doing something else, or achieving more. That feeling is universal. Almost everyone experiences it at some point, and it’s one of the reasons life can feel so exhausting.
By mikeabout a month ago in Humans
When Everything Feels Annoying: Why Life Sometimes Just Gets Under Your Skin
There are days when it feels like the world is intentionally testing you. You spill coffee, the text you’ve been waiting for doesn’t come, your playlist skips, a coworker says the wrong thing, and suddenly everything is irritating. You snap at small things, feel restless, and even people you usually like seem exhausting. You feel short-tempered, impatient, and frustrated with life itself.
By mikeabout a month ago in Humans
Why Overthinking Is Quietly Sabotaging Your Life
Overthinking is one of the most underrated traps in modern life. Unlike obvious obstacles like deadlines or external pressures, overthinking is invisible. It lives inside your mind, quietly spinning thoughts into spirals of doubt, anxiety, and hesitation. You might not notice it until you realize opportunities have passed or decisions have become paralyzing.
By mikeabout a month ago in Humans