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Dating, married, single, divorced, and more. Advice on the relationships you have in life. Dear, Humans..
Respect Your Relationship
When you are in a relationship, you have to learn that if you want respect from your partner, you have to give it first. If they take your respect and throw it away, then it was something they were either not use to getting or didn't know how to handle you in the first place. Now I'm no relationship expert or anything like that so you don't have to take my advice. However, you can read my story and my life as it is now.
By Friday Vibes8 years ago in Humans
What to Do When Your Boyfriend Ignores You
There are very few things that a person can do which will be as hurtful as ignoring you—especially during an argument. Unfortunately, there are a lot of people out there who seem to think that the best way to stay in power is to ignore a person until they concede.
By Sasha Konikovo8 years ago in Humans
What Are You Giving Your Sweetheart for Valentine’s Day?
Don't stress over a Valentine's gift. Valentine's gift giving can be quite tricky especially since it follows Christmas. But let me make this task easy for you. I’ve lived thru many Valentine's Days, and I’ve found the answer. The first thing to do is, don’t stress. It is not the end of the world if you do not have the perfect idea or even receive the perfect gift from your sweetheart. Relax and release the pressure you might be feeling, that is, unless you are in the doghouse.
By Sima Ballinger8 years ago in Humans
Relationship Advice From My Uber Driver
I know this is going to come as a shock to many of you, but dating as a millennial is next to impossible. “There’s plenty of fish in the sea,” they say. Except what “they” don’t know is that the sea is actually full of fuck boys running from commitment, or good guys who have already found the one they are ready to settle down with. And if you happen to stumble upon a guy you think you might want to get to know, sooner or later you find out they are one or all of the following: too clingy, emotionally unavailable (and let me tell you, I’ve had my fair share, so I know the sea is full of them), too immature for a relationship right now, or he needs to find himself and is leaving to go travel for five months. So, after we eliminate all of those guys, what's left?
By Jennifer Proudfoot8 years ago in Humans
Managing a Long Distance Relationship
I used to be the girl who thought long-distance relationships were pointless, until it became my situation. I had been in one before during college, but it was much different than the one I am in now. I didn't understand why people wanted to do that to themselves. Why be in a relationship if you can't physically BE with the person? I had ended a relationship because we would be in completely different states. The reason I find myself in one now is because I finally met someone who is worth it and I know that it is only temporary. That is the key. Finding someone who is worth it and willing to stick it out with you.
By Christina Elizabeth8 years ago in Humans
How I Survived Heartbreak....
The man nearly destroyed me. I came home and he was gone! Just like that! He literally packed up his half of our life together, including my step children, and happily waltzed his way back to his ex wife after nearly 10 years with me......
By Rainbow Tent8 years ago in Humans
How To Be a Better Lover. Top Story - January 2018.
If there’s one thing that most men wish they knew, it’s how to be a better lover for their partners. For most men, it’s a matter of pride knowing that they can please their partners and make the girls they love get a little weak in the knees. It’s also the reason why the “neighborhood Lothario” tends to make so many men jealous; it almost feels like he may know something other guys don’t about the female libido.
By Ossiana Tepfenhart8 years ago in Humans
How to Judge Whether You Should Leave a Relationship
I know that feelings can truly blur a person's view of the world, distorting reality and judgement, making it very hard to know what the right decision is, and to also make that right decision. A big key in knowing whether a relationship is right is to take yourself OUTSIDE of those emotions. Try viewing the relationship from a third person's perspective. For example, imagine your sister or best friend is in your position - would you advise her to leave? If so, ask yourself why. If you would advise a friend/sister/brother/parent to leave the relationship, then question why you're still there. Of course, there's a lot more involved than that, and maybe in context, you can justify why the relationship isn't great, or why your other half is treating you not so well.
By Fiona Western8 years ago in Humans
7 Signs That He's Not The One
If "...and they lived happily ever after..." is a statement that describes your ideal future, then this article is for you! Who doesn't secretly long for their own Prince Charming? Alas, I have faith that you'll find your prince in due time. Unfortunately, you'll probably end up kissing (or dating) a few frogs along the way. Having trouble figuring out which one's which? It's ok, we've all been there. Here are 7 signs that he's no Prince Charming.
By Ashlynn DiMatteo-Mans8 years ago in Humans
Don’t Wait Up
I spent over three years of my life trying to make things work with someone who didn’t want me. I know, it sounds stupid, but in my head, I thought...Well, he keeps coming back for a reason, maybe we are meant to be together. Wrong. I learned that people don’t come back around because y’all are “meant to be together,” but because it’s easy. It’s easy to type up a small paragraph or make a phone call and talk up a good game on how you’re sorry and want to make things work. That’s all it takes for you to fall. Soon enough, they start slipping into their old ways; the inconsistency, you wondering what you’re doing wrong, and why you’re not good enough, what is it about you that you need to fix to make things work, why is it that you just can’t be enough for him?
By enigmatic mami.8 years ago in Humans
Hard Love
Now, I'm sure a huge percent of you have been in relationships, or at least dated at some point in your lives so far. But if you haven't, read this. It may be of help to you if you end up loving someone that doesn't show you nearly as much affection in return.
By Taylor Jones8 years ago in Humans
How To Spring Clean Your Love Life
Spring clean your love life? Sounds ridiculous. Yet, most singles can appreciate the need to clear out some of the physical and emotional baggage from their lives in order to make room for new love. So why not take advantage of the season and get your inner and outer lives spruced up?
By Bonny Albo8 years ago in Humans
