fetishes

Explore common and little-known fetishes. Learn how to satisfy a fetish and how to interpret the fetishes of your partner.

Kinky or Submissive?
When me and my boyfriend got together, he didn't tell me that he gets turned on by hurting other people. I didn't understand that side of him. I remember one time he had asked me if he could zip tie my hands and I let him. Half way into, I started to freak out because I've never been restrained like that before and begged him to cut me loose so I ran into the bathroom once he cut them off. He got so upset that he finally told me that he was a dominant. I was shocked because it was my first time being with someone like that. I was scared at first. Didn't know what to think of the situation. I had a lot of questions to ask because I was so curious about it. it. I got used to the fact that he was like that and I accepted it.
By Renee .8 years ago in Filthy
BDSM
Yes ladies, the book series that a million people (mainly women) read is full of crap. 50 Shades of Grey had a few glaring flaws, the main one was that Christian is a stalker who had a temper which is not a good combination for a dom or a boyfriend. Really think about it, would you want a guy who has a temper AND had access to floggers, paddles and other impact toys? I know I wouldn't. Those toys can hurt, I know I've been hit by them. An ex had impact toys and we explored that side.
By Lena Bailey9 years ago in Filthy
Aunties' Influences
This story is a conversation between me and several members of a fetish website. Their names have been omitted but the main protagonist is me and my obsession with my deviant aunt.
By auto pilot9 years ago in Filthy
BDSM: How Far Is Too Far?
As far as fetishes go, bondage can be one of the more versatile. However fun it may be for those willing to participate, there will always be someone who believes it is little more than abuse. How do you know when your bondage play has gone too far? Where is the line between BDSM and abuse?
By Tara Roberts9 years ago in Filthy
The Club
The air was smoky and the lights were very dim as I passed a group of maybe five guys sitting at a table. I practically had to squint to make out where I was going. I felt their eyes on me as I swung into the ladies washroom. I stopped to check my reflection in the mirror, my friend was right, the contact lenses certainly did allow my big brown eyes to be seen better. I couldn't believe the person looking back was me. What a difference from a year ago.
By Frankie Lane9 years ago in Filthy
Tell It Like It Is
When it comes to sexual relationships, there are some areas that can be a little tricky. There are the average questions of, who's more sexually advanced than the other, is my physical physique up to par or, am I doing the things he likes? What if your questions ranged further? What if you had a sexual itch that needed to be scratched and struggling with how to ask without scaring him off?
By Tara Roberts9 years ago in Filthy
Corset Ways
"The way of the Corset is tight, but will hug you as long as you need. Remember me when you are naked. Remember I held you tight and long." M.F
By Megan Finwall9 years ago in Filthy
Dominance in the Bedroom
So, you've been asked to take part in a Dominant-submissive role in the bedroom. A part of you is excited, while the other is overwhelmed by the concept. Never fear, it's not that complex.
By Tara Roberts9 years ago in Filthy
Submission Is Not Weakness
To begin with, I have no more psychological issues than the everyday person. I was neither sexually abused at any point in my life nor do I suffer from any form of sexual disorder: I am completely capable of enjoying a sexual encounter without the aid of BDSM. I also knew early on that my sexual preferences were anything but traditional. Becoming excited over the scent and feel of smoothed rubber was a dead giveaway.
By Tara Roberts9 years ago in Filthy
Leather
Scuse me while I wax poetic for a few minutes, will you? Today, I took a moment to take off all the pins on my vest and clean it. A moment of posterity struck me as I tended my hide and I’d like to share it with those that might like to read it.
By Nikki Collins9 years ago in Filthy
Why Showing a Vanilla Your Fetlife Profile is Not Always a Great Idea...
It may seem like I've got a bit of a downer on the vanillas at the moment. I haven't but as I've said in my previous writings, I came to a conclusion about them this week. So on that premise, I thought I'd share some of the amusing conversations I have had.
By The Kinky Fox9 years ago in Filthy
The Chastity Project - Chapter Three
In my other blog - the autism one - I spoke about an encounter I had with a bull. I lived on a farm when I was young, and this bull used to terrify me. One day, I tried to stare it down, and it started shaking its head, stamping its hooves, snorting loudly - generally acting like a fucking psychopath. My nerve broke and I ran away from it. I was completely safe from it. It was in a pen, and there was no way it could get at me. But it was still a terrifying moment, for an eight-year-old boy.
By Graham Farquhar9 years ago in Filthy